Adhoori kahaniyan ka Maksad

Kuch kahaniyan adhoori hi rah jati hai, behtar hai unko poora kiya jaye.adhoora chod dene se har kisi ko dukh hota hai. ye post me us thought ke saath likh rahi hoon jo college se mere dimag me hai. College me bante bigadte rishton ko dekha to ye sab dimag me aaya per kabhi likha nahi.Per aaj mere kuch dost isi mod per hai unhi se inspire hoke likh rhi hoon..

College ka pyar jindagi bhar ka saath bhi ho sakta hai aisa bahut kam log sochte hai.Per jo sochte hai wo college duration me poore dil se nibahte hai lekin college ke baad jab dooriyan badti hai to samay ke saath dheere dheere ye sab dhundhla jata hai..tab ye nadan dil poochta hai, Kya wo pahla pyaar sachcha pyar tha????????

Bhavuk log apne isi Prashn  ko dil se jodte hai aur maan baith te hai haan yahi wo pahla aur aakhiri pyar tha..jisse hi duniya shuru hoti thi aur jisper hi aakar khatam ho jati thi.Uske siva koi aur apna nahi lagta, duniyadari begani lagti hai...shayad shayaron ne aise hi logon ko DEEWANA kaha hai.

Ye ehsas sirf college se hi related nahi hai jindagi me aise kai mod aate hai aur aap kisi ki taraf aakarshit hote ho aur thodi si intimacy use hi aapka sab kuch bana deti hai.Isme kuch galat nahi hai ye shayad sabse jyada sukun dene wala ehsas ho sakta hai aur aapki sabse meethi yaaden bhi isi se judi ho sakti hai.Lekin....

Lekin yaaden yaaden hi rah jayengi aur acha hai ki inhe yaadon me hi kahin kho jane do warna jeena mushkil ho jayega..Zindagi mili hai jeene ke liye ise jiyo ,apne liye jiyo aur jab ye bahut takllef de to doosron ke liye jeekar dekho.Ye ishwar ka aisa aashirwad hai jo usi ki icha se falta foolta hai.Koi prakrati k niyamon se ulta nahi chal sakta aur chalna bhi nahi chaiye.

Wo pahla pyaar jindagi me sakaar nahi ho pata uske kai reasons ho sakte .. parents ki marzi,haalat.. kuch bhi ho sakta hai me unki gahrai me nahi jaungi..

Per in halaton ke saamne khud ko kabhi kamjor nahi padne dena chahiye.Aapko wo nahi mila iska matlab ye nahi ki aap zindagi khatam karne pe utaaroo ho jao..
Mujhe ye sab ajeeb lagta hai jab log aise kadam uthate hai..kyun??
Kya kabhi unhe apne parents ka khyal nahi aata jo unke liye itna kiye,unper kya gujregi??
Aur aisa nahi hai ki jindagi me koi gam aaye kahin nirasha haath lage to jeena chod do..jindagi to chalne ka naam hai..aaj dhoop me chaloge to kal chaanv bhi aayegi ye nishchit hai.Per uske liye dhairyawan bano..apne parents ki aankhon me aansoon ka karan banane ki bajay unki himmat bano ki haan tum itne majboot ho ki zindagi ki kathnaiyaan jhel sakte ho..
Isiliye jindagi tyagna Bad optionnnnnn.............

Ek aur pahloo bhi hai in adhoori kahaniyon ka jo mera maksad hai is post ke jariye aap logon ke saath share karne ka... Jab maa baap apni duhai de kar in kahaniyon ko poora karne ki koshish karte hai lekin kahani ke nayak badal jate hai.Ye koshish thopi hui ho sakti hai lekin aapke aane wale jeevan ko smooth bhi bana sakti hai..chahiye bas to aapki samajh aur vishwas vidhata ki is anokhi karni me.

Mana jisko dil me basa chuke ho uski jagah kisi aur ko dena namumkin hai..per jahan chah hai wahan raah hai.Jo naya aane wala hai jeevan me uske liye kuch aur  nahi to insaniyat ke tahat hi socho...

Pyaar aapne kiya, halaton ne aapko majboor kiya per uski kya galti hai use to aapke liye ishwar ne pasand kiya.Uske saath ab saari jindagi aapko rahna hai uske liye to bafadari banti hai.wo bhi aapke saath kuch sapne sanjoye hoga lekin aap uski bhavnaon ko nahi samjhoge to uska dil bhi to tootega.

Do(2) dil to halaton ne tod diye, per aur do dil aap anjane me lekin jaan boojhkar tod rahe ho.Ye ilzaam aapko sar pe hi aayega aur aana bhi chahiye. Ek baar Apne aap ko wahan rakh kar dekho ki dil tootne ka dard kya hota hai aur iss jagah shayad aapse behtar koi aur samajh bhi nahi sake kyunki aapne dil tootne ka dard mehsoos kiya hai...kahin na kahin aapne bhi us waqt socha hoga ki ishwar ye din kisi ko na dikhaye jaisa mujhe dikhaya per gaur se socho to wahi din aap kisi ko dikha rahe ho,wahi kisi ke dard ka reason aap ban rahe ho.

Me manti hoon jo maine likha har kisi k liye karna possible nahi hai.pahle sab apna sochte hai aur sochna bhi chahiye per pyaar ek ehsas hai jo swarthi insaan ko niswaarthi banata hai,kis aur ke liye uski ichcha se jeena sikhata hai..to bas usi pyaar ki seekh se thode din kisi aur ke liye jee kar dekho,use hi sab kuch man lo. Dekhna ye sab kitni jaldi us dhundhli yaad aur usse hone wale dard ko mita dega aur aapke jeevan ko naye maksad mil jayenge.

I Think Of you

I Think Of you…

You are the reason I survive Through each season of my life

When I am disturbed or confused Inside my mind

 I Think of you 

When life gets intense and nothing make sense

I think of you..

When the world seems unfair and the wind is too cold

I Think Of you…

When there is no change to spare and my dreams have grown old

I Think of you….

When my body is tired and my soul is run down

I think of you..

When my nights are sleepless,seems too long and light seems to dim

I think of you…

When my heart has no song and the soul has no spirit

I think of you…

When the work seems too hard but the passion is too slow

I think of you…

When my vision get impaired and moon shines low

I think of you…

If I should look down at the horrible shadow of emptiness,

I would be doomed to a life of defeat in my loneliness

So, I think of you..

And the wonder your words do,

The thought of you, turn gray skies to blue,

So, I think of you

Saath Adhoora

Khayal panpa hai aaj dil me kuch kah jaoon,

                   Jajbaton ne saath chod diya.

Gila hai apnon se mujhe ,

                   Shikwon ne saath chod diya.

Hoonk uthi ki bataoon raj apne dil ka kisi ko,

                   Lavjon ne saath chod diya...

Mashroof hoon mein apni duniya me is kadar,

                   Kareebi ne saath chod diya.

Chal padi thi me manjil pane ke liye

                   Raaston ne saath chod diya.

Bahana tha naploon duniyan ko apne iradon se,

                   Kadmon ne saath chod diya...

Sapnon ka gulshan hai mera jahan,

                   Gulzar ne saath chod diya.

Le rahi hai hiloren jindagi ki tarange,

                   Saahilon ne kareeb aana chod diya.

Mahsoos karti hoon khud ko akela,

                   Ab to tanhai ne bhi saath chod diya

Vajood...

Hazaron me hokar bhi khud se juda hoon,per wo pehchan kahan se laoon?

Chahat to Hai char pal jee loon,Per in palonn me jindagi kahan se laoon?

Aaj dil kuch likhne ko betab hai,Per wo amitt cyaahi kahan se laoon?

Kuch kureda to apne dil ko hai,Per sab kuch kah jane wale wo shabd kahan se laoon?

Shabdon ki gahrai ko khangala to hai,Per wo kissa kahan se laoon?

Kisse afsane to yunhi ban jate hai,Per un afsanon ke kirdar kahan se laoon?

Kirdar!!! Kirdar  to halation ki kadputli hai,Per kudputli ki dor kahan se laoon?

Iss dor se bandhi Patang to meri jindagi hai,Kat jaye to dhoondh kar kahan se laoon?

Law Of Karma

The role of Values in Life

We often come across people who achieve an incredible degree of worldly success, but remain under tremendous pressure. They remain mentally stressed and physically drained. Though they achieve growth and take up additional responsibilities, their mental pressure also increases proportionately. With all the success and glory they achieve, you will find them struggling with an inner thirst for fulfillment, a hunger for personal congruency and a deep need for developing their relationships with other people. The reason for this paradox is that the fundamental values and principles of life and living that they have focused upon and much less understood.
We take it for granted that right living comes naturally as we grow up; but that does not happen. Living is a science as well as an art. To be dynamic in your field of activity and at the same time maintain peace of mind you have to be an artist of life, a techno craft of your personality. It requires specific training and education. You need the training to know the technology of life and to gain mastery over yourself and your life.
In the untrained process of living, people are craving for two things – success and peace. Success is the tribute that the world pays to excellence. True success and enduring happiness is a result of incorporating and integrating the time tested values and principles of life in every fibre of your activities in your day-to-day living.